I am truly incomplete. I know we are all a work in progress but, I am in a space where I do not know myself. I know what my values are and what I believe in, but I am not sure that I completely understand what matters to me at this moment. I know this […]
I just realized that the last time I had an amazing night out partying must be when I was about 20 years old. That is about 13 years ago! I used to throw it down y’all especially when it came to dance. Brick & Lace, Ne-Yo, CB, Rihanna, dancehall, you name it, I used to […]
No, thank you! That was my answer to a job opportunity that was going to pay me twice my current salary and similar benefits but no challenge. I was offered a management role to begin on March 1, but after much thought and guidance from God, I declined this opportunity. Hear me out. My current […]
Yes, it is. Budgeting is for me and the transformation and shift I have seen in myself over the past month is worth noting. I know how easy an addiction can start and I always denote addiction to the negative things, but it has since dawned on me that we can be addicted to good […]
I have been broken so many times over the past 14 days, even when I thought I no longer had pain in me. The thing about being broken is that I experience the level of pain differently. So my major source of brokenness was seeing my mum, my only living parent, in hospital and knowing […]
I want to be a success story. I want to be considered a success based on my own definition. I am worried that my mum is soon retiring and I will not be able to support her to the level I want to. I desire that my Instagram channel grows and most importantly makes money. […]
You might think that this will be an introspective post of me trying to find out why I am here, in this world, but you are wrong! I am asking myself why I am here writing this blog when I should focus on a systematic review writing that will pay me. I am really finding […]
Dare to believe is my theme for 2022. I have lived in fear, doubt, and uncertainty all my life. I mean it! I have been fearful all my life. I have an ex who was very disappointed in me, and because we are still friends, he said that the biggest obstacle with me is I […]
This is the first time after so many months that I have considered myself productive. The last quarter of this year has been characterized by “overwhelm” in my world. I, however, find it paradoxical that this has also been the best season in my year. My consultancy business seems promising; I got a promotion with […]
Have you ever felt that you know God is with you? That you know that you know? You cannot describe how you know but you know? Well, I am in that season. A season too difficult to share with people because they might think that you are delusional. I cannot tell this to my friends […]
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