I am truly incomplete. I know we are all a work in progress but, I am in a space where I do not know myself. I know what my values are and what I believe in, but I am not sure that I completely understand what matters to me at this moment. I know this […]
I just realized that the last time I had an amazing night out partying must be when I was about 20 years old. That is about 13 years ago! I used to throw it down y’all especially when it came to dance. Brick & Lace, Ne-Yo, CB, Rihanna, dancehall, you name it, I used to […]
No, thank you! That was my answer to a job opportunity that was going to pay me twice my current salary and similar benefits but no challenge. I was offered a management role to begin on March 1, but after much thought and guidance from God, I declined this opportunity. Hear me out. My current […]
Yes, it is. Budgeting is for me and the transformation and shift I have seen in myself over the past month is worth noting. I know how easy an addiction can start and I always denote addiction to the negative things, but it has since dawned on me that we can be addicted to good […]
We all enjoy a feel-good positive environment. Most of us enjoy that calm and happy state that feels like everything is in order and all processes are a go. Yes life is still going on but it isn’t too much to handle. You’re managing. You’re grateful for life. Well, small things can make a difference […]
I have been broken so many times over the past 14 days, even when I thought I no longer had pain in me. The thing about being broken is that I experience the level of pain differently. So my major source of brokenness was seeing my mum, my only living parent, in hospital and knowing […]
2022 began a few days ago. It is the 4th of January today. I love New Year’s. It always feels like a fresh chance to do it all over again. A fresh season. Another take. This year I truly want to make it count. I want to push myself. I want to be highly functional. […]
I want to be a success story. I want to be considered a success based on my own definition. I am worried that my mum is soon retiring and I will not be able to support her to the level I want to. I desire that my Instagram channel grows and most importantly makes money. […]
You might think that this will be an introspective post of me trying to find out why I am here, in this world, but you are wrong! I am asking myself why I am here writing this blog when I should focus on a systematic review writing that will pay me. I am really finding […]
Dare to believe is my theme for 2022. I have lived in fear, doubt, and uncertainty all my life. I mean it! I have been fearful all my life. I have an ex who was very disappointed in me, and because we are still friends, he said that the biggest obstacle with me is I […]
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